Lost Someone Close

 FAST FACTS 
  • Feelings of sadness can be normal, appropriate, and even necessary during life's setbacks or losses. Prolonged feelings of sadness should be addressed.
  • Grief refers to the emotions and feelings experienced after the loss of a loved one, usually through death, but also from ending a relationship. Sadness is a normal response to loss that should not be prevented.
  • Grief responses will vary depending upon the circumstances associated with the death. For example, if the deceased suffered from a chronic illness, the death may have been anticipated, and may even come as a relief from suffering. If the death was accidental or violent, coming to a stage of acceptance may take longer.
  • Mourning is a normal process that often takes as long as 18 months, however prolonged depression may be present and should be treated. Severity, duration, and the presence of other symptoms are factors that distinguish ordinary sadness from a depressive disorder. If signs of depression are apparent, refer for treatment.
 WHAT TO DO 
  • Get into a support, bereavement, or reminiscence group.
 WHERE TO GO 
  • Catholic Charities provides a resource for staff training:
    (216) 696-6525
  • Cleveland Department of Aging provides telephone reassurance and case management at no charge as part of their "Caring Program":
    (216) 664-2833.
  • Locate bereavement groups which may include a senior center social worker, VNA hospice programs, Catholic Charities, Regional Office on Aging, or local funeral home.
  • Locate reminiscence groups found at local hospital outreach centers or contact a social worker or university student.

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